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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:12 pm Post subject: Bullying |
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Are you or have you ever been bullied at school?
Would you like to talk about and share your problems with us.
There maybe others who are in the same boat that dont want to talk about it and would open up if more of you would tell your stories..
We are here to listen and help you build your confidence. |
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reddevilleanne
Joined: 20 Oct 2004
Posts: 13227
Location: Nottingham
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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As you all know, I was bullied two years back and I had two years off school coz of it coz I developed a school fear and agrophobia. I just started going back in September 2005, but in the last couple of days, I've started being bullied again. A guy that supposedly is in love with me is actually spreading horrible rumours around school about me to try and split me and my bf up. Also, I was thrown crisps all lesson during Media today by 4 girls that were taking the p*** outta me.
I aint looking for sympathy, I just want someone to see how f***ing stupid society is nowadays. Why can't people just leave others alone and let them get on with their lives? Why do they have to put others through hell just because they don't like them for something they have/do? I seriously wish I could slap a bit of sense into so many idiots.
*Rant over* |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
Posts: 19951
Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 5:03 pm Post subject: |
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| Dont let them got to you my dear friend .. |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 1718
Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Pingu
All Bullies are cowards and bully others because they cannot face up the person/people who bully them. There are three kind of bullies: 'pure victims', 'pure bullies', 'bully/victim' and neutral.
The bully/victims' are oten volatile, have poor understanding of social situations and are well known at school but not popular.
'Pure bullies' are oten confident children, who are skilled manipulators with good social understanding but little empathy. The 'pure bullies' who experience harsh discipline or relationship dificulties at home or the 'pure victims' who are often over-protected by parents who do most o their conflict resolution for them.
Find out what type your bully is and I will suggest some ways of dealing with him
Leandra50 :-) |
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reddevilleanne
Joined: 20 Oct 2004
Posts: 13227
Location: Nottingham
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Apr 04, 2006 9:44 pm Post subject: |
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| But there's more than one; there's at least six.. |
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GET CARTER
Joined: 13 Jan 2006
Posts: 1028
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 12:02 pm Post subject: |
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| I was a bit of a bully at school, secondary school primary i was bullied, so i know both sides, Get into a group with the other kids who are also like you, having numbers on you side helps, |
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wickedmonkey
Joined: 28 Feb 2006
Posts: 2004
Location: Staffordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 3:18 pm Post subject: I'm being bullied :'( |
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At school i'm being bullied by 7 girls :smt022 , It all started off when i first started high school in september last yr , they kept giving me evil's at school for a month . But then they started shoving me and shoving me till i fell over and tripping me up so i fell over :smt064
Then in pe 2 weeks ago they sprayed an aerosol can in my eyes till they bled , then got me told off for nothing .
And its really begining to hurt me now cos they are turnin my friends against me again now :smt064 :smt064 :smt064
:smt013 :smt022 :smt013 :smt022 :smt013 |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Your true freinds will stick by you |
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wickedmonkey
Joined: 28 Feb 2006
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Location: Staffordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 5:20 pm Post subject: |
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~~debbydo~~ wrote:
Your true freinds will stick by you
I know , but it appears i don't have many , cos they are all going :( |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Apr 05, 2006 6:07 pm Post subject: |
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| I bet you do .. |
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wickedmonkey
Joined: 28 Feb 2006
Posts: 2004
Location: Staffordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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~~debbydo~~ wrote:
I bet you do ..
no they have all left me now :( :( :cry: :cry: There is 1 left :cry: |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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A friend told me today..
Its the most liked and popular kid that gets bullied so you could be very much liked.
And if its agroup 1 will be the leader who is the weakest when on her own. |
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*Talented_Witch*
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
Posts: 987
Location: Spice World
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 10:47 pm Post subject: |
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| I've been bullied my whole life more or less even now sometimes i cant even walk up town without sum ass shoutin abuse at me but now ive learned to just block it out...they aint worth it...untill i stood up for myself and beat the crap out of one of the girls ppl wudnt leave me alone but i got there in the end... |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 12:18 pm Post subject: |
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| Kezza I'm sorry to hear that, cos I for one think you are great! |
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*Talented_Witch*
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
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Location: Spice World
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 9:34 pm Post subject: |
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I don't have any friends i was always quite alone and the friends i did have well they were never really great mates and were quitev younger than me but i was just happy to have a friend ya know...
There's this fella at work o REALLY fancy and im really tryin to always look nice at work...put a bit of make up on make sure me hairs nice...he talks to me sumtimes but i rly rly like him i dont have any friends at work eather...but this fella just seems to make everyfin normal like its just me and him.... |
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