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shellyx
Joined: 03 May 2004
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Location: Sheffield uk
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Fri May 07, 2004 4:54 pm Post subject: confidence! |
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can anyone help me??? i've been single for some time now and i'm finding it very difficult to approach people i find attractive or interesting. I seem to have lost all self confidence! any one got any good tips on spotting the 'signs' that someone is interested back?
just thought i'd post something that might help many, plus noone seems to post anything so thought i'd try get ppl talking :D
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ukevents.net
Joined: 15 Dec 2003
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Mon May 10, 2004 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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Hi Shell,
Thank you for your post.
I am no expert in relationships but maybe others in the group may have some ideas.
Anyone know how to spot the signs ? |
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shellyx
Joined: 03 May 2004
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Location: Sheffield uk
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed May 19, 2004 3:45 pm Post subject: |
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well according to responses everyone must b in a relationship, and havent had to flirt for so long they dont know how either :lol:
ah well, i think i may manage to scare off a date over the weekend, watch this space lol. i'm not THAT ugly, honest :shock:
i keep smiling, i know i'm gonna find him 1 day :wink: at least i dont have to row on demand hehehe
Shell x |
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twinkletoes
Joined: 04 Apr 2004
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Location: From South Africa, now in UK
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Sun May 23, 2004 4:46 pm Post subject: |
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ukevents.net wrote:
Hi Shell,
Thank you for your post.
I am no expert in relationships but maybe others in the group may have some ideas.
Anyone know how to spot the signs ?
You are a GUY ... so tell us what you would do if you were interested in a chick and she displayed interest in you :smt046 |
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twinkletoes
Joined: 04 Apr 2004
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Location: From South Africa, now in UK
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Sun May 23, 2004 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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I have thought about this, and this is how I think I show I am NOT interested in someone.
I would not engage in a conversation if I was not interested, but then again, it sometimes takes a while before you know if there is any possibility. When I have chatted for a while and decide there is NO WAY I am interested, I fidget, look around the room and generally look bored.
I found this too, dont know how true it is, but there u go :o
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."
His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.
His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.
Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.
His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)
When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)
He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)
His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'
If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.
He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)
He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue. |
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ukevents.net
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Sun May 23, 2004 5:51 pm Post subject: |
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twinkletoes wrote:
You are a GUY ...
Yeah, your right.... that did sound dumb.
:smt022 |
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shellyx
Joined: 03 May 2004
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Location: Sheffield uk
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Sun May 23, 2004 8:39 pm Post subject: |
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| wow lol |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
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Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 2:12 pm Post subject: |
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Hi Shelly
Confidence is one of passions, get in touch and we'll talk about signs that the person is interested :)
Leandra |
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shellyx
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Location: Sheffield uk
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2004 3:16 pm Post subject: |
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aww thats real nice of u, thanks
shell x |
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