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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 9:04 pm Post subject: |
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thats nice leandra .. i hope my ex and i can be friends .. but dont think we would be close ..
my man i have at the moment has won my heart ..
but i get scared as i always thought marrige was for life .. |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
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Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2005 8:13 am Post subject: |
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Hello Debbydo, you shouldn't get scared, the changes to perception as we know it in the 50s i.e. marrying someone for life, do not seem to be the norm anymore just as women don't stay home with the children and support their husband but is now part of the financial input in a family. For me this september will be 34 years of marriage - still love my other-half although my assumption that he's my soulmate may have changed a little
leandra50 :) |
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~~debbydo~~
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2005 10:50 am Post subject: |
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thats good going leandra ..
i hope this rationship i have last a long time .(poor bloke ) :smt005 |
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Leandra50
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 1:30 am Post subject: |
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I think it is good but it has been hard work over the years. Marriage or a stable relationship has to be worked at continually otherwise it goes by the wayside. Poor treasure he married a crazy female and in the process I become a habit he would miss terrible if I disappear ha ha ha ha
leandra50 :D |
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~~debbydo~~
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:05 am Post subject: |
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lol hopefully thats how my fella will feel ..
he says i'm funny when i go into one ...
and my silly little moods .. :smt005 |
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Leandra50
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2005 12:42 am Post subject: |
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I have a routine if I am upset, I go for a long walk or put some slow jazz on then the family knows its time to give me space
leandra50 :) |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2005 4:00 am Post subject: |
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thats a good odea ..
i prob need to pamper my self to make me feel good .. |
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Leandra50
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2005 2:06 pm Post subject: |
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Debbydo pampering is good idea whether its in the form of having a relaxing massagel, dinner and theatre is good for moral
leandra50 :) |
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~~debbydo~~
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Sep 28, 2005 2:11 pm Post subject: |
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| i agree there i never go out as i have my son and my boyfriend is too busy with work so we dont go out .. :smt012 |
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Leandra50
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2005 7:09 am Post subject: |
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If that is the case debbydo then you need ideas of pampering whilst staying home, here goes:
Candle lit Dinners
Smoothing sensual massages
Aroma baths
Movies with Wine & Aftermints
leandra50 :nike: |
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~~debbydo~~
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Sep 29, 2005 6:09 pm Post subject: |
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thanx leandra ..
but it nice to go out occasionally as i never seem to go out .. :smt012 |
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Leandra50
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 10:34 am Post subject: |
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Thats the spirit, browse online for ideas on a great night out and go for it
leandra50 :) |
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~~debbydo~~
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2005 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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my man never takes me out says hes too busy .. disgust
he saisd he was going to take me out to night and what a suprise hes too tired .. |
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Leandra50
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 9:23 pm Post subject: |
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I know the feeling Debbydo, I was promised dinner and candlelight on 30/9/05 did not materialise because the other-half changes his mind i.e he wasn't feeling 100%. Not a problem because I shall take myself off to the theatre on my own middle of this month
leadra50 :) |
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~~debbydo~~
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2005 7:54 am Post subject: |
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| its a shame we are not closer as we could go out and leave them at home alone .. :smt005 |
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