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Macs34
Joined: 25 Mar 2004
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Location: Kenya
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 4:13 am Post subject: |
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| Ofcourse instinct is wat results from the confirmation. thanks for your obsevation leandra that was good of you. |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
Posts: 19951
Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 4:49 am Post subject: |
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yes i think thats what i fear leandra going in seperate directions ..
at the moment though we are going in the same direction.
and i hpe it continues .. |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 1718
Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:14 am Post subject: |
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Thanks Macs, anytime
leandra50 :lol: |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
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Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:17 am Post subject: |
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Dear Debbydo
No need to fear that you may grow separately. Most of what we fear as human never materialise so just enjoy growing together for the moment and you might find that your goals and aspirations are the same
leandra50 8) |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:20 am Post subject: |
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i think they are ..
he makes me well happy and i love him to bits ...
i would follow any path that the would lead as i trust him with my life, i feel safe when he touches me, and hope that it for a very long time |
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Macs34
Joined: 25 Mar 2004
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Location: Kenya
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:32 am Post subject: |
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Reletionship.....
Suggestion
(1) Dont Fear your partner.... respect him/her
Most of the time we fear them thinking we are respecting them....
Most of the time we bend so low to please them instead of respecting them
Most of the time we drag ourselves to think if we fear them they will
respect us... and be with us all the time....
WRONG
You are giving him/her the Ego.. to laugh at you......
Take control by:
(1) Talking about your fears and let him/her understand that....
wat is the ideal place... who said dinners are for eating only... burger places are for hotdogs and stuff,
(2) For woman.... mek your man think he came up with all the ideas
(3) For Men ...... Flowers dont work, dinner doesnt work, communication - Listening works perfectly. |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 6:34 am Post subject: |
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| ermm i should let my boy friend read this ... and thanx macs its good advice .. |
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Macs34
Joined: 25 Mar 2004
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Location: Kenya
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 10:41 am Post subject: |
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~~debbydo~~ wrote:
ermm i should let my boy friend read this ... and thanx macs its good advice ..
Hey i still insist, this aint an advice....
it is a SUGGESTION :-D |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 4:39 pm Post subject: |
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| its great any way .. |
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Macs34
Joined: 25 Mar 2004
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Location: Kenya
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 12:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Thanks am honoured!!! :-D |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 4:28 pm Post subject: |
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| great ... |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 1718
Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 3:05 am Post subject: |
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Hello Macs good and positive suggestions, if I may I would like to add to your list.
Compliment and compromise should always be present on both sides as well as the right to be an individual
leandra50 :) |
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Macs34
Joined: 25 Mar 2004
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Location: Kenya
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 4:44 am Post subject: |
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gives one the room to breath....
thank you leandra |
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~~debbydo~~
Joined: 18 Jul 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Thu Sep 22, 2005 8:01 pm Post subject: |
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i hope you gys are doing well ..
and leandra do you have your ideal soul mate .. |
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Leandra50
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
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Location: Essex
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| Tell a Friend Posted: Fri Sep 23, 2005 4:29 am Post subject: |
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Hello Debbyudo, I thought I did years ago (husband) however, over the years we seem to have develop different priority, nevertheless we love each other and he is my best friend as well.
leandra50 |
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